Friends
Friend ship is such a gr8 relation in this word… its one relation which will make u forget all ur sorrows and will take u to new heights… a frnd will be one with whom u can share anything which u cant share with ur parents or relatives…
The reason y many of us had a happy life in our childhood is that, when we feel like laughing we laugh out loudly and when we feel like crying we cry out loudly… i.e. we don’t control our emotions in our child hood… but as we grow up we control our emotions because of our surroundings so we wont be mentally fit always…
If u have lots and lots of frnds around u, u will have more people to share ur emotions and ur life will be mentally very good since u have exposed ur emotions (I feel that I am lucky in having many frnds)
At the same time one should see to that the expectations doesn’t grow along with frndship… if it grows then having frnds will be of no use… and we should also know our limits to our frnds... if we exceed our limits we might receive harsh replies from our dear frnds which will make u feel more worse…
Suddenly felt like sharing this… so bloged it :)
The reason y many of us had a happy life in our childhood is that, when we feel like laughing we laugh out loudly and when we feel like crying we cry out loudly… i.e. we don’t control our emotions in our child hood… but as we grow up we control our emotions because of our surroundings so we wont be mentally fit always…
If u have lots and lots of frnds around u, u will have more people to share ur emotions and ur life will be mentally very good since u have exposed ur emotions (I feel that I am lucky in having many frnds)
At the same time one should see to that the expectations doesn’t grow along with frndship… if it grows then having frnds will be of no use… and we should also know our limits to our frnds... if we exceed our limits we might receive harsh replies from our dear frnds which will make u feel more worse…
Suddenly felt like sharing this… so bloged it :)
posted by vasanth at 11:51 AM
11 Comments:
Its me macha, first to comment
childhood stages of ur wordings are really good da.
coming to point......
Limitations with friends are the ?qs
According to me , limitations are to b there.
i have expereinced in my life, u too know that....
My idea is : better not to get in to their personal life, bcs ?????????????? it is personal.
u may ask? me , then what does the word friend says...
it all depends on both side....
so live ur life for urself and not for others.
[ As my friends said , if some one does not like u do not worry ,its their problem ]
Note: ur writing skill has improved a lot and i believe it has started to serve the purpose of ur blogging., am i right??
Saga
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@ maria...
i totally agree with what u said macha...
better not to get in to their personal life, bcs ?????????????? it is personal
and
if some one does not like u do not worry ,its their problem
both r cool, super and perfectly true da :)
bravo! man, what an evolution you've gone through!!! its so nostalgic.u've KISSed it. keep the good work going.
Nice da..
suddenly felt like sharing ?
I know why u said. I'm feeling it da. Let me add.. "distance doesn't matter for friendhip da".
I believe u know the other Vasanth in my life. May be out of context but still look at this, http://vijaydreams.blogspot.com/2005/08/vasanth.html to know how magical friendship is !!
This s such a nice topic that i'm tempted to comment on it... i always feel LOVE is the only thing which rules the world... n friendship s one of the purest forms of love... a friend s someone who loves u for what u r.. whatever u r... even the most
succesful of people become a failure when they have noone around them to share their
success...
I agree with ur point tat emotions need to be shared... every person needs some means to vent out his emotions... mostly it comes in the form of a friend... there should be atleast one person to whom they v emotionally attached to... unshared emotions will make a person emotionally unstable... and such a person is like a valcono ready to errupt anytime...
Its true that the only expectation in friendship should be frienship itself... as long as the feeling r true and from the heart a friend remains a friend forever...
keep writin on more such topics...
mapla...a real good one da...
not much to comment on this,bcoz it has reflected wat i feel for friendship....(but still, my definition of friendship is still complex)my simple say on friendship is
"Friendship not a mere Relational-Bond,but a Relationship tat is Emotionally-Bound"
but handling emotions is not as easy as u talk and write,its like a prayer,u need to do it with utmost divinity and dedication...
reading maria's comments,it reminds me of a poetry wat i wrote on friends during my college days,
"Friends are of Three
1)The Best
2)The Guest
3)The Pest(Pester,Parasite)
If u r his Best,Later u may become his Worst(When Emotions are mishandled,when expectations are not met)
If u r his Guest, u suit him the Best(bcoz u have some distance)"
If u r a Pest,avoiding u will be his Best(materialistic minds wont make a good bond)"
hey vasanth,
romba feel pannitiya.. nice topic da.. mutrilum unmai.. generally wen u get closer to ppl, expectation increase, may it b ur frnd or ur lover.. possessiveness creeps in too.. ppl shud know how to keep dat in control, as i've faced dat prob many times n now kinda able to control it :)..
newez keeo bloggin da..
Vasanth,
Very good blog. It gets me into my evergreen memories.
Though one does not have any relation, he should have a friend to share his feelings.
Good. Keep it up!
:)
Expecting more blogs from you...
- HRK
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